Richard Chamberlain had an affair with a younger actor, then broke his heart by falling for another man

Richard Chamberlain became one of the biggest actors around as he appeared in Dr. Kildare and The Thorn Birds.

Of course, Richard Chamberlain was more than just a handsome Dr. Kildare. He portrayed several eminent characters, but at the same time led a tough life. He loved the fame, but it was also something he couldn’t escape from. 

Not only that, but he carried the secret of being gay for a long time. And in fact, he was involved in an affair – and broke his boyfriend’s heart by falling in love with someone else.

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Richard Chamberlain was born on March 31, 1934 in Beverly Hills, California. As a child, Richard loved listening to the radio, particularly to radio dramas and mysteries. 

Richard Chamberlain – childhood

He didn’t enjoy school, but at the same time didn’t think he had the courage to be an actor. That changed once he figured out his true life calling.

“We used to go to double-bills on a dime and I thought, ‘Whoa, that’s a good place to be—up on the screen,’” he recalled

“I was always fascinated with the idea of being an actor. The problem was I was always a little withdrawn, shy, and not very sure of myself. But the people up on screen seemed so confident.”

Chamberlain attended Pomona College, where his interest in acting grew. He landed several roles in their theatrical productions, for which he was praised.

Soon after college, he would turn to the studios to look for work, and Paramount Pictures showed their interest. However, the Korean War was happening, and in December of 1956 he was drafted into the Army to serve for 16 months.

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When Richard Chamberlain returned to the United States, he already knew were he wanted to go – and that place was Hollywood.

Richard Chamberlain – career

He got parts in several productions, but it wasn’t until 1961 that he’d score the part which changed his life. Richard Chamberlain played Dr. Kildare in the medical series of the same name, and it turned into a huge success.

He wasn’t only praised by critics for his role, but he gained a huge fanbase. Suddenly, Richard Chamberlain was the golden boy of the 1960s.

“My self-esteem deep down was low, low low for various reasons. And so, having that kind of public adulation, was just wonderful. It was like a wonderful medicine. It was everything that I’d ever dreamt of, and being thought to be very attractive and everything, I thought it was just great,” Richard Chamberlain explained on Emmy TV Legends.

“I used to be chased around supermarkets. I had a convertible stingray and girls would chase me around in the hills, but I usually managed to escape. When travelling with my parents in Switzerland we were at some mountain top when someone came up and asked me for my autograph. And my father said ‘Now I know you really made it,’” Chamberlain said laughing. 

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DrKildare aired in 1961. The series followed Chamberlain’s Dr. James Kildare – a young medical intern – and the relationship between him and his mentor Dr. Leonard Gillespie, played by Raymond Massey, at the  fictional Blair General Hospital.

Starred as Dr. Kildare

It was a huge breakthrough for Chamberlain, who won a Golden Globe Award for Best TV Star – Male in 1963. The show aired from 1961 to 1966 with a total of 191 episodes and was nominated for several Emmy’s and Golden Globe Awards.

So why was the medical drama so successful? 

According to Richard Chamberlain himself, it was all about the fact that Dr. Kildare was a doctor who cared about, listened to and helped all of his patients. That made the show attractive. 

“It was hugely successful right from the beginning all over the world. It was my ultimate dream come true, everything I had ever dreamt of for my own life and creativity, it was a phenomenal stroke of excellent good fortune,” Chamberlain said. 

“I think people are fascinated by medical protection, of situations in life like this. Everybody knows that someday you’ll be sick, break something or another problem, and you’ll need a doctor.” 

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Richard Chamberlain had a contract with MGM at the time, but he didn’t have time to rest. First of all, he received an “enormous amount” of fan mail and presents, but he just wasn’t capable of answering every single one.

“I never got any time off”

Since Dr. Kildare was such a huge success, MGM saw their chance and took it. The studio decided to put him in several movies in between shooting the series.

“I never got any time off. And if their was a week or so off, they’d send me somewhere and do publicity. I took ballet classes and singing lessons after work, so I kind of escaped.”

Chamberlain wanted to do more than just be a “Prince Charming” type of actor for soap operas. He appeared in Twilight of Honor (1963) and Joy in the Morning (1965), but the viewers didn’t like it at all. 

It all looked like he was destined to be a sweet and charming soap opera persona. However, Richard had other plans.

Instead of continuing work with the cinema, Chamberlain focused on the creativity on stage, as he had in college. In 1966, he starred in several theatrical productions, including The Philadelphia Story and Private Lives, and even as Tony in West Side Story.

The theater brought Richard Chamberlain to England, giving him roles in classics like Hamlet in 1969 and Richard II in 1971. Following a number of years, he returned to the US to pursue a new chapter in his Hollywood career.

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In the 1980’s, Chamberlain would get his so called revenge. He starred in Shogun (1980) and The Thorn Birds (1983). The second one was also a huge success abroad, and Chamberlain finally got the recognition he deserved.

Richard Chamberlain – coming out through his memoir

For his performance in The Thorn Birds, he received a Golden Globe Award for Best Performance by an Actor in a Miniseries or Motion Picture Made for Television. The show itself won several Golden Globes and also several Emmy’s

People seemed to want a tragedy-driven soap-opera.

“It was the absolute top of the heat of a soap opera,” Richard Chamberlain says. 

“I am often surprised when I think about how it remains so successful, because there was one tragedy after another, after another, after another. Nobody came out on top of that show. It was so sad but had such wonderful characters”

Richard Chamberlain eventually headed back to the theater, starring in several Broadway shows. He later decided to move away from the spotlight altogether, relocating to Hawaii. 

In 2003, he released his memoir Shattered Love, in which he came out as a gay man, at age 69. 

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During Chamberlain’s career, he’d set young hearts on fire as Dr. Kildare and as Father Ralph in The Thorn Birds. He said his job was to be a “hetero heartthrob,” but his friends and almost everyone in the business knew he was gay.

Bravery and courage

“When you grow up in the ’30s, ’40s and ’50s being gay, it not only ain’t easy, it’s just impossible,” Chamberlain told the New York Times

“You cannot do it, that being gay was the worst thing you can possibly be. I assumed there was something terribly wrong with me. And even becoming famous and all that, it was still there.”

Richard Chamberlain had years of therapy, going through various spiritual-raising experiences as well, to help him find his identity. 

No matter what, he was brave and showed great courage in coming out, especially at the age of almost 70 years old. 

Richard Chamberlain lived together with his partner, producer Martin Rabbett, for several years, but they then elected to live separately.

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“We don’t live together anymore, and we’re much better friends than we’ve ever been,” Chamberlain said. “So I’m in the business of advising people who are married, etc., to get another house.”

Richard Chamberlain – love affair with actor Wesley Eure

Even though Richard Chamberlain didn’t come out until he was in his 70s, he had an affair with actor Wesley Eure, who was a star on the sitcom Days of Our Lives, when he was younger.

In 1975 and 1976, Chamberlain and Eure secretly dated, and lived under the same roof for about a year.

In his book True Confessions of a Shameless Gossip, Hollywood jouralist Craig Bennett details his friendship with Wesley Eure. Further, he states about Eure’s secret relationship with Richard Chamberlain, claiming that Wesley had “boasted” about Richard’s skills as a lover.

“Richard was nearly 20 years older,” Bennett writes. “Wesley explained that for him, Richard was not only a wonderful lover and a mentor to a young actor, but also a ‘father figure.'”

Bennett explained that Wesley Eure had been abandoned by his own father when he was only a young child.

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“He said he loved Richard deeply and they lived together secretly for a year, and how Hollywood would have been mortified if word had gotten out.”

Richard Chamberlain broke Wesley’s heart, journalist claims

Richard Chamberlain and Wesley Eure dated and lived together for a year. However, their relationship came to an abrupt end.

It turned out that Chamberlain had fallen in love with another man, Martin Rabbett, with whom he later had a relationship with in 1984. The two parted in 2010, but at the time, Richard broke his then boyfriend’s heart.

“I remember Wesley had tears in his eyes as he revealed that Richard had broken his heart by falling in love with another man,” Craig Bennett wrote in his book True Confessions of a Shameless Gossip.

Richard Chamberlain was the golden boy of the 1960s, ranked at No. 7 in TV Guide’s list of “TV’s 25 Greatest Teen Idols.”

In 2000, he received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. But despite now being 87 years old, he still shines bright and continues to star in productions. 

As recently as last year, he played a part in the drama film Finding Julia. Also, he’s set to feature in the fictional drama Echoes of the Past, which as of November last year was in post-production, according to its Facebook page.

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On Facebook, a picture was posted of Richard Chamberlain working on set – and wow, does he look wonderful!

This is Richard Chamberlain today

In 2013, Chamberlain’s collection of poems, My Life in Haiku, was published. And the well-respected actor has proven himself to be a wise man following a life full of ups and downs, telling the world that you always should follow your dreams and be who you are.

“I’m discovering in my later days what it’s like to just be myself. I came from a family where we were all pretending to be perfect. We played into each others’ game of perfection”, Chamberlain told Palm Springs Life in October 2019. 

“But just in the last couple of years, I’ve felt this wonderful freedom to really … just be myself.”